Adoption Services at Tot Law, APC
Guiding You Through Adoption with Clarity and Compassion

At Tot Law, APC, we provide comprehensive adoption services designed to support you at every stage of the process. Our team offers clear information, respectful counsel, and steady advocacy—helping you understand your options, protect your rights, and move forward with confidence. We approach every case with care and dignity, recognizing the emotional complexity involved for all parties.
Our Adoption Services
Stepparent Adoptions
We guide stepparents through the process of adopting their spouse’s child, including the legal steps required to terminate the other parent’s rights when necessary. Our team assesses eligibility, prepares evidence, and supports you through every requirement, whether the case is uncontested or involves objections and hearings.
Independent (Private) Adoptions
If you’ve already connected with a child’s parent(s) and everyone agrees to the adoption, we manage the entire legal process—from filings and consents to court requirements. Even in straightforward cases, independent adoptions can be complex and time-sensitive. If your adoption has encountered obstacles, we can step in at any stage to resolve issues and keep your case moving forward.
Adult Adoptions
We assist adults (18+) seeking to formalize lifelong family bonds through adoption. Our services cover the entire process, ensuring clarity and efficiency while honoring the relationships involved.
Learn more on our blog: Understanding the Nuances of Adoption in California.
Why Choose Tot Law, APC
Our practice is deeply rooted in adoption law, with extensive experience in California procedures and a nuanced understanding of both legal and emotional dynamics. We are committed to clear, compassionate communication—offering plain-language guidance, step-by-step support, and realistic timelines. Our trauma-informed, asset-based approach honors each person’s experience and prioritizes the well-being of everyone involved. Whether your adoption is uncontested or requires complex litigation, we provide strategic, steady advocacy every step of the way.
Schedule a Free Consultation
Speak with a San Diego adoption attorney today. We’ll listen, answer your questions, and outline a plan that honors your goals and supports the child’s well-being.
Call us or request a consultation online. Evening and virtual appointments are available.

